Understanding Your Shadow: The Key to A Successful Marriage
Why is it that you’re 35% happier if you live next door to a good friend, but only 8% happier when you live with a spouse? Why do most young …
Sexual Compulsivity Has Many Forms
Sexual compulsives can have wildly different kinds and degrees of obsessions. I’ve helped men and women who were absolutely “Sexually addicted.” They urgently craved self-destructive sex like compulsive philandering, prostitutes, …
No Institution is Immune to Corruption, Including Marriage
Human nature corrupts all institutions. Any institution—bank, company, army, government, family, marriage, you name it—has been, is being, or will be corrupted. The institution of marriage has special significance, because …
Let Her Inspire You to be a Better Man
This blog post is for guys willing to learn to love women better. A couple come sits in my office at 1:00 on a sunny Monday. Alexi is Persian-American Osteopath. …
Lying as Violence – How Your Lies Create Separations
People lie all the time. Check out these stats from Little White Lies – The Truth About Why Women Lie: 12 % of adults admit telling lies. 80% of women …
Checking In For Better Or Worse – Attunement and Trust
Happy couples often enjoy checking in with each other throughout the day. They’ll text, call, email just to have contact—very much like monkeys who can spend up to 70% of …
Checking in with Your Partner: Happy or Unhappy – Therapist in the Wild [Video]
There are unhappy “checking-in” couples as well, though, and while the words and mechanisms are similar, the energy is very, very different.
Mature Sex – When we don't feel like BABES anymore – Don't worry it's not over
Jennifer J. wrote to us on our Ask Dr. Keith page: “I’d love to see an episode on sexuality in older people…women who don’t feel like babes anymore, men who …
Is Facebook Bad for Relationships? I Don't Think So
Facebook has been criticized by bloggers and social media haters over the last four or five years, mostly in response to one study, by of all people, the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML). That’s right, divorce lawyers.